Blog Faith, Hope, Love Foundation of India - FAITH-HOPE-LOVE

An End To Poverty?

6/14/2016

One individual working alone will not end the issue of poverty and neither can one government do the same. However, if we can all work together to help those with so much less, then perhaps it is possible. It is difficult to comprehend how we can live in a world where over 850 million people are living in extreme impoverish conditions with many more living on the edge about to join them.

People don't become poor all on their own, we don't believe. Perhaps a child is born into poverty, but the poverty began some time back in the family's history. There are many factors that will force people into poverty such are wars, droughts and famines, economic crisis, and many more. The question is how do we help them get out of poverty when so many factors are working against them? Is providing the poor with basic education good enough? We don't think so...but it is better than no education.

Mother Teresa once spoke up to her critics who said she was spoiling the poor, enabling them, and keeping them dependent on her goodness. In response to her critics, she said that in our society so many people have spoiled the wealthy so isn't it about time someone spoils the poor.

So to that end, what if we can spoil the poor with the best education, the best schooling that everyone would wish to have? How would that impact poverty in this world? We would never know until we try.

Another Day at the Office!

6/1/2016

With the end of May and Summer is approaching, we were getting the children ready for entrance to their boarding homes. Over the years, we have learned and made adjustments to help the children and families in the transition from street living to boarding situation. So with the help of a local social worker, we gathered all the children and families together for some counseling and informative guidelines prior to bringing them to their boarding homes to receive care and education.

In total for the month of May, 13 children will be making the transition from the street to boarding environment. The kids are very excited to go into boarding. However, it is always unpredictable how they will adjust once they are there and whether they will find their new environment a place they feel as a home with love and care.

We just hope that the children will make full use of the opportunity. Our main goal is to provide the children with proper shelter and care. The educational part is important, but it takes on a lesser importance to providing proper shelter and care. We hope that the children will learn to value the education they receive even if they don't get through and complete their schooling. But, if the children learn to value education, then perhaps their children will have a better chance to achieve.

A Nice 9-5 Day at the Office!

5/18/2016

Just like any 9-5 job, I began my day at 8:00am actually to pick up two families from Motiljel Slum and Terretti Bazaar Slum to go to school for registration and boarding. We arrived at Ashalayam by 9:00am and began the interview process with Fr. Alfred. Then the kids and families were brought up to counseling and processed. However, due to morning breaks and lunch where everything stops regardless of what is going on, the parents and I did not signed the completed registration papers until 4:30pm. However, in the end, the two kids were happy they are going to a boarding home and schooling.

Papiya is a 12 year old girl from the Motiljel Slum living with her grandfather, mother, and two sibblings, She is the eldest of the three. Her father recently passed away at the age of 31 years of age. She is in class 4 in Hindi Medium, bvut with the loss of her father and a source of income, life is difficult for the family and so we are happy to be able to help Papiya with boarding and ease the family's financial burden just a little.

Sahil is an 11 year old boy from the Terretti Bazaar Slum area and is also in class 4. He comes from a family of 4 children and he is the eldest. His father works as a laborer, but a recent accident to his abdomen makes hauling material difficult and his monthly earning got reduced. Sahil is a wonderful artist and loves to draw. He can also speak English fairly well so we hope he will be attending English Medium classes soon.

By the end of the day, both kids were happy as they left Ashalayam to their new homes. The families were also happy and are very supportive of their kids. And though they are older than the normal kids we usually placed in boarding, we have much hope these two children will do well in school.

A Child Following The Footsteps of Don Bosco

5/4/2016

Saint Don Bosco did not receive his formal education until he was 13 years old. He took advantage of the chance he was given and somehow succeeded and eventually became a priest. He later began to set up programs to help street boys similar to himself to also have opportunities to make it in life. Today, there are Don Bosco schools all over the world providing education and care for the poor and often homeless children.

Today, we placed Biki, a slum boy of 11 years old, into Don Bosco Ashalayam in Howrah. Biki, like Don Bosco in early years, does not have any formal education to date. We are hoping that the same success will happen to Biki as it did for Saint Don Bosco.

Biki comes from a family of three boys. He is the middle child. Biki only has a mother who works in a hospital cleaning for 1500 Rupees a month. He has no father in his life since the father left a long time ago and both his grandparents have passed away. The children and mother and an uncle live in a small 8 feet by 6 feet single room house next to the train tracks. During summer, it gets very hot inside since it is made of bamboo and scrap tin. And during the monsoon season, it is constantly filled with water.

We also tried to place Biki's little brother who is five, but the school said he is too small for boarding. For Biki's little brother, he will have to wait another year or two before it is possible to put him in boarding. Biki's older brother is 15 years old and there is no place to put him and so for him, his life is set and he will grow old in the slum of Kolkata doing odd jobs for 1500-2000 Rupees each month.

We placed Biki and many children like Biki whom for many reasons have never been to school to receive even the basic education into boarding school with the hope they can somehow follow the footsteps of Don Bosco and walk away from the slum and away from poverty.

A Journey With No End In Sights

4/19/2016

Looking back, three and a half years ago, I began helping one child living in the slum to have boarding and education. That one action turned into five children receiving an opportunity to have better lives. From that one single action, there is now over sixty children who are in boarding schools receiving an education. I have placed so many children in boarding schools with some I remember clearly their lives situations while others became vague memories. Many kids I have placed are now gone and I have no idea what has happened of them. There was one 14 year old girl who left boarding because she was Schizophrenic and the school released her shortly after she was placed due to lack of services to deal with her condition. She was sent back to her family who cannot care for her and did not want her. Where that girl is now and what is happening in her life, I cannot imagine.

As I walk through the slums, new children and families would come and ask for boarding. But, I would also see some of the children that were placed at one time in boarding running around because they have decided to leave boarding school to be back in the streets. It is hard to understand why parents would choose to have their kids live in the streets instead of in boarding schools.

When I placed a child in boarding school, I am filled with mixed emotions. I am happy for the child that he or she will receive an opportunity for schooling, but I am also a little sad knowing I will not see the child every time I visit the slum and streets. I go visit the child in the boarding school, but that is not as often since the work to help the children is mainly in the streets of Kolkata.

Since that first child, I have placed so many kids that I have lost perspective of how many children have been helped. But no matter how many children I enrolled in school, more are being born to replace them. I just don't understand why parents would bring a newborn into a life of poverty and hunger. I have stopped asking the why question so much and simply tried to help those standing in front of me.

I don't know how much longer I will be able to do this work, but I am glad to have received help from many people along the way. I supposed the day when I have given all that I have to these poor children is the day that the work will end. For now, the end is still far away. I hope that more people will come to help the children and I hope that when I can no longer go on that someone will pick up the reign to continue the work and carry the responsibility.

What will a person do to survive?

9/26/2015

I spent the day today checking on the children at Nav Jeevan in the morning and later at Don Bosco in the afternoon. Getting to Don Bosco was a test of patience since it took almost 2 hours by bus to go a distance of about 7 kilometers due to the traffic jam of Kolkata. All the children in our boarding schools are doing well except for Veejay who wants to go back home. After some counseling, he decided to remain in boarding. However, I have a feeling that he may not stay since he does not have the same freedom to do what he pleases as when he was living in the slum along the train tracks.

As I left Mother's House this morning, I took a pack of biscuits from them not knowing exactly what I will do with the biscuits. But as I left Mother's House after evening prayer, a homeless man passed me on the street, stopped and bent down to pick a piece of food from the gutter and placed it into his mouth. I tapped him on the shoulder and asked if he would like some biscuits and gave him half a pack which he quickly ate half and saved the other half for later. I then told him to come to Shishu Bhavan at seven each morning where he can get a nice hot meal from the MC Sisters. A little bit further down the road, I ran into a poor woman I see begging everyday and gave her half of the remaining biscuits and that brought a smile to her face since they are her favorite. She comes to the Sealdah dispensary every morning to get food from us and is happy whenever we give her biscuits. And further down the road, I ran across another homeless man sitting in the gutter near the trash holding a cow bone with some raw flesh still on it. That was going to be his dinner for the night so I stopped for a third time and gave the rest of the biscuits to him. He took the biscuits from my hand and a warm smile came to his face as I wished him well.

It is amazing what people will do here in Kolkata to survive each day. I am humbled by them for I am too weak to do what they do to survive and would just give up. Therefore, I am very thankful that I am able to serve the poor in any little way I can. They are my boss and they are God's children in the truest sense.

Living On The Wrong Side Of The Tracks

7/22/2015

I did another home visit today in a slum in Tengra (southeast side of Kolkata). The home is next to the train track on one side and a glass tower apartment on the other side. The area is being developed with more luxury living condo apartments. The rich and the poor live next to each other, but they might as well be light years apart. Every day the rich people look from their glass towers to the streets below and only see what they wish to see. And every day the poor look up and wonder what are beyond those glass windows. Only in the eyes of God are the poor recognized as beautiful and worthy. But in much of our society, they are forgotten and unseen. They wait for hope to come, but often times they have given up and have accepted the lives they are given since hope seldom comes.

The First Month of Summer

7/21/2015

July 4, 2015

I received enough school supplies and used clothes to fill four full size suitcases. However, due to airline rules for baggage, I was only able to take two somewhat over the weight limit suitcases with me to Kolkata. The rest of the donations will have to wait until my next trip back to the States.

Always, when I returned to the States, it seems more different and I see how much more our society needs to do to help the poor. The amount of spending we generate on everything from purchasing things we need to live to luxury items that we eventually no longer use and discard.

I have met many people who share this passion to help the poor and others with less. But, I have also met many people who don’t want to help the poor and feel it is not their responsibility. It is definitely a difficult if not impossible task in helping the poor and to provide them with opportunities. However, it is very easy to help one poor child/person to have a better life simply by recognizing he/she deserves our respect and love.

July 5, 2015

This morning I went to Don Bosco Ashalayam to paid tuition for the non-German sponsored children and was surprised to learn that a new director, Father Alfred is now in charge. After meeting him, I caught him up on who I am and the mission of the work. Father Alfred is willing to look at our children and make assessment so perhaps, we will be able to place children again in boarding school in Don Bosco.

All the children except for two are still there and are doing well. The two children who left were taken out by their fathers. There was no reason why they wanted their kids out, but I can speculate that it is for work or conflict with school’s philosophy.

At Nav Jeevan, I went to visit Rupa, who we recently placed. She is doing well, but still misses her family a little. The rest of the children are doing well except for one girl, Mary, who is missing because her mother has not brought her back from a holiday break. Sr. Lizy is keeping her place opened for now in case she returns.

July 6, 2015

Today, MC Sisters took me to a school in the village where three of the children were placed in a boarding school run by the Sisters of St. Anne. The school and hostel are situated on a large piece of land with nice landscaping of mango, banana, and jack fruit trees. Many tropical flowering plants add colors and beauty to the environment. The children appeared well-adjusted to their new homes which is a stark contrast from the train platform of Sealdah. On the train ride, it was difficult to take in the poverty that exists for kilometer after kilometer along the train track. Tiny homes of rusted tin metals and bamboos formed a gauntlet on both sides of the track that seems to have no end in sight.

July 7, 2015

I visited the Nimtala Slum and the Gandhi Slum today until the afternoon rain came. I met with the children and family to let them know we have six slots available for boarding. Of course, many parents wanted their kids to be placed, but we can only take six so it will be difficult to decide who gets placed and who will wait until next time. While visiting the children, one child was being physically abused by a very bad father who bloodied the boy. The mother wants us to take the child for boarding, but I am afraid the father will cause trouble so it may not happen. As long as the abusive father is in the picture, there is not much I can do to help. The mother can go to the police, but that is probably no help either.

July 8, 2015

As I promised a mother and her son three months ago when I was in Kolkata, I stopped by her make-shift home in the Nimtala Slum to provide boarding school for her son. At the request of the MC Sister, another boy from the same area was also provided boarding. At first, I was about to bring the children to Missionaries of the Word, but after speaking with the director, I felt taking them to Don Bosco was the better option. At Don Bosco, Fr. Alfred was helpful and quickly processed the children’s papers and within an hour, the children were admitted.

I am quite pleased that Don Bosco Ashalayam and I are able to work together once more to help provide education for the poor. Father Alfred seems more sympathetic for the poor since he is born and raised in West Bengal so poverty is a part of his life. In any case, I hope this will be a long lasting cooperation that will benefit the children we are serving.

July 10, 2015

Wading knee deep in sewage water due to monsoon rain this morning, I began to wonder how some people are fortunate enough to live in glass houses while others not so fortunate are trying to keep what little possessions they have above water. It seems the two worlds are so separated that one cannot imagine how the other lives.

I have been blessed to have experience being poor with nothing but the clothes on my back and also to have everything I need and more. So as I sat in prayers today, I wondered how and why some people are born into poverty while others are born into privilege.

Jesus said, “When I was hungry, you did not give me food and when I was thirsty, you did not give me drink.” To serve the poor is to serve God. To love the poor is to love God. To be human is to love and care for others and every living creatures on Earth.

July 12, 2015

After mass this morning, I visited a mother and 5 year old son in the slum next to the Gandhi Center. We then took a taxi to visit the Missionaries of the Word to see if she wants her son to go there. Br. Xavier was nice enough to show them around and explained the school’s mission. And though the mother likes the school, she did mention it was very far away. I said we will go to Don Bosco on Thursday and she can decide afterward which school would be better for her son. On the way back to the slum, I visited three other families and on Tuesday, we hope to bring one boy and two girls to Don Bosco for boarding.

Today was very hot and humid. After a twelve hour day, I could not stand my own body odor. And no matter how many showers I take, some days I cannot take enough showers to feel fresh. Today is one of those days.

July 14, 2015

Today, a volunteer from Valencia, Spain came along to help with the children. We arrived at the Gandhi slum around 8:30 am and gathered the children and mother to take to Don Bosco for boarding. They were pretty excited to go. We took two buses to get there and after 45 minutes, we arrived to Don Bosco only to have to wait two more hours, because they were busy with internal matters. When my frustration was finally at my limit, I began coaxing the staff to begin processing the children’s papers so that the children may be placed in a boarding home and get off the streets. By 4:30 pm, we were able to help three children from the Gandhi slum get boarding and education.

Part of the internal issues they were discussing was about helping too many Muslim and the problem with helping the poor Muslims while not as many poor Hindus are being helped. Again, I was reminded to try bringing in more poor Hindus so the numbers are about equal. Of course, it will never be equal as long as ethnic and religious discrimination exists in society.

It is bad enough that society treat poor people badly and not show them respect and dignity. But, to prioritize by religion to see which poor person should be helped is really beyond my comprehension and makes me question the compassion within society.

The poor never seem to catch a break. They are not afforded many opportunities. And when they are given an opportunity, they are not given many chances to make mistakes. The poor in India are seldom given a first opportunity much less a second.

Three Children Placed in June-2015

7/1/2015

For the month of June, we placed two girls (sisters) in a village boarding school and one girl in Nav Jeevan (Kolkata). We also received clothes donation from a couple of USA donors and school supplies. Several volunteers will be arriving in July to help us so that will be very exciting. We will be doing school visits next month and updates on the children will be posted. Hopefully, the kids will be advancing in their academics.

Another Spring and New Hope

3/30/2015

I rummaged through the pile of books and school supplies that a private school was throwing away since they are considered out of date and began putting them into neat piles. In Kolkata, we will be able to use the English and Math books to teach the children in the slums and in the streets. I took one book of each grade level from class 1 to class 4 and made photocopies of the books to give to our children in the streets and slum so that they may have proper materials to learn. I smiled a little knowing I was sorting through someone else’s trash of books seeing the value that they still hold.

In the slum near the Gandhi Center, I met with little Rupa and her family to ask them if they wanted their daughter to attend boarding school. This time they agreed to let her attend. Rupa is a lovely six year old girl soon to be seven and she loves to learn whenever we come to teach her in the slum. I had spoken with the sisters at Nav Jeevan to come do a home visit and to verify Rupa’s living condition before she can be admitted. Now it is a matter of waiting and praying that she will soon be accepted.

I took another child from the Nimtala slum to visit a boarding school in Tolygunde area south of Kolkata. The six year boy and his mother along with his two siblings live next to the train tracks. His mother works to clean houses for a living and makes perhaps 2000-3000 Rupees per month. The young boy has not had any formal education and will probably have no chance of a future other than living out his life in the slum next to the train track if he is not placed into a boarding school.

Now it is a matter of waiting and praying that the two children will be accepted and getting papers for them will not be a complicated process.